tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8405554088113128372.post7573137456352027749..comments2017-11-03T14:42:17.911-07:00Comments on Ma Chere Moineau: ZaydChere Moineauhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06949482298526601779noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8405554088113128372.post-84344698349906693162012-01-02T16:36:40.593-08:002012-01-02T16:36:40.593-08:00Thanks SoulSeek.
I was just reading an article ...Thanks SoulSeek. <br /><br />I was just reading an article the other day (from a mainstream magazine) that talked about the possibility of the extinction of the alpha male and a corresponding rise in the number of alpha females in our society. It definetly painted a pretty scary picture, and unfortunately, the way things are going it seems to be a little too close to reality. <br /><br />Within the Muslim community, you see the phenomenon you described everywhere. Especially when it comes to progressive, Islamic-centered movements and organisations like those related to community development, human rights and the environment. Every volunteer organisation that I've been involved with has been dominated by sisters - which makes it seem that they're the only ones who care about these issues. And this isn't to say that these brothers don't exist; they're just hard to find. The thing is that the girl power movement is very trendy right now, which is fine. But I really think there needs to be some kind of a similar movement for boys...<br />which is why I've always secretly hoped that when I have children, they'd all be boys. :PChere Moineauhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06949482298526601779noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8405554088113128372.post-7708116903993493982011-11-30T14:56:11.552-08:002011-11-30T14:56:11.552-08:00Oh and march forth girl! It doesn't get any ea...Oh and march forth girl! It doesn't get any easier. It's a vicious cycle.<br /><br />Without sounding like a broken record - keep a firm relationship with Allah. He is listening and accepting all your duas. Infinite wisdom on his part. <br /><br />Remember dat.SoulSeekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17159283661469135108noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8405554088113128372.post-92199181345652567052011-11-30T14:54:30.041-08:002011-11-30T14:54:30.041-08:00Assalamu Alaikum,
I was going to throw in my two ...Assalamu Alaikum,<br /><br />I was going to throw in my two pence about second chances and not being so hasty but then I read on...<br /><br />You're on the ball. And the truth is; if brothers want any half arsed chance in sisters like yourself then they need to step up. <br /><br />They need to stop being sisters and start becoming men. We are in the state we're in as an ummah because we've too many brothers who lack any kind of drive, ethusiam and aspirations in life. <br /><br />I've met sisters from all walks of lifes and backgrounds. From Lawyers to Alimah's, I've noticed something within myself. If there's chemistry and compatibility I can pick up any sister I like and I believe this isn't just inherent within me. Any headstrong brother with key qualities can do the same. It's called being a man and I have chapters in my head in how the prophet (saw) was 'the man'.<br /><br />Living in a society where there's a clash of Ideological ideas and an even bigger clash in roles and indentities, Muslim women have had to step up if they want any kind of opportunities in this society. As a result, our women are becoming on par if not stronger than our Muslim men. Women want want certain qualities and the female counterpart will always want to be loved and cherished. Brothers who don't have that ability aren't going to be a great deal of game, are they?SoulSeekhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17159283661469135108noreply@blogger.com